You see, men like a challenge! Especially heartless Womanizers who mostly exist just for the chase.
Needy women who hang around a man constantly and give off the impression of basing their happiness upon his opinion of them are freaking scary to men!
Imagine how you would feel if there was a guy in your life who was constantly calling, emailing, buying you gifts and letting you date other men at the same time...you'd feel like he was missing his frontal lobe!!
Womanizers don't know exactly how to react when a woman in their environment leaves them alone.
They're used to being the center of attention with women everywhere....so a woman who doesn't take up his time, nor make a fool of herself around him, immediately stands out as being different from the rest of the ladies.
Does your Romeo, the love of your life, the best-looking man you've ever seen, want some time off to sleep with your cousin?!! Do a fast disappearing act - no more emails, no more telephone calls, no more accidental crossings of paths! You have a busy, productive life to lead - you don't need his crap in your life! Plus, there are other men out there who want to date you!!
Even if you are going through a dry spell in life - no other cute men around, you hate your job, or various other life problems are making you feel very needy for the Womanizer's company - remember that Womanizers tend to behave in predictable patterns that will yet-again hurt you. You have to ask yourself how many times you want to be treated like a fool in life!
Give off the impression of having an exciting life, one that doesn't necessarily involve him, and he will become very curious about you. If he has dumped you, maybe he will come crawling back asking for more. Then you will be in a position to decide whether YOU want him back or not.
Not paying attention to a Womanizer works wonders for a number of intentions:
- attracting his attention initially,
- punishing him with your absence if he has hurt you,
- setting yourself apart as a self-sufficient, confident, exciting woman who has other options,
- moving on with your life!!
Don't be a sucker, don't hang around him if he is behaving like a heartless asshole!!
You deserve much better than that in your life, and you simply don't have the time for pain, confusion and lies from him!!
Leaving him alone also gets easier with time.
The less time you spend with him, the more time you will have available for meeting new people, and new romantic partners. Your newly-found peace of mind for not having the Womanizer around will make you wonder what you saw in him in the first place!
Don't tolerate rotten behavior from other people.
If your womanizer is taking away your peace of mind, drop him!!
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